I think it takes a strong parent who knows the true meaning of sacrifice to endure and /or ignore the failings of his or her partner for the sake of their child or children, but a lot of people are of varying opinions as regards the issue.
While some might be in line with thoughts as to the fact that it takes two parents to better raise a child, others have countered with the fact that when you make your child your priority you can raise a child of flawless character even when apart.
Yet again some others had bluntly hit the nail on the head, when they brought to light that either or both parents still deciding to remain together might create an even more damaging effect on the child, if he/ she is groomed in an environment of constant violence, especially violence as exhibited by his parents towards each other.
Hmm... Well... All in all... I think a quick preventive method is to... "marry for all the right reasons". People shouldn't get married for reasons which without that singular quality of your spouse, the home would be unbearable. That is it shouldn't be all about the money, the looks, reputation or even desperation to settle down. We all have our different 'turn- ons', but just make sure that without that quality, there are other good qualities to make you stay.
E. G if that hot shape of hers got you screaming "I do", what happens when she becomes a mother of three and adds a lot of weight and some things aren't the same any more, or she gets too busy with raising your kids that her aura no longer screams "sexy", is it a situation for you to dash for the door, or there is a back up plan, that would make you wanna stay such as "I just love her"...
We might not be able to get spilled milk back in the bottle, but we can prevent another bottle of milk from spilling... #couples to be, take note! #
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